How To Be Cautious When Dating Someone In The Workplace

Does this sound familiar? “Separate Business with Pleasure.” Many organizations forbid intimate relationships between coworkers. Also, I read that some companies are creating contracts between the two parties to avoid any legal issues. The question remains, is it a good idea to date a coworker?

I have to admit I had the experience a long time ago dating someone at work. Long story short, very short, it didn’t end well. That is why I want to share with you why you should avoid dating that new employee that is just starting to work in your department.

It’s easy to like someone that you spend all lot of time with and have something in common. You start noticing the physical attraction, the chemistry between the two; it’s fun and exciting and why not? Right? Just remember that if you do get involved, there is a lot to consider. Below you will find some eye openers for you to evaluate before you jump into a workplace romance.

Confidential

You decide to go for it anyway, that’s ok you are entitled to your actions, and you are also responsible. But, keep it confidential. Do not let others know and remember that you are at work, stay focused on your task and keep being productive.

Concentrate

It takes a high level of concentration to keep it discreet; you are going to be tempted to tell one or two coworkers. Be careful, that’s when gossip starts and things will start heading into unfavorable situations.

Change

You two are working in the same department, and suddenly you get promoted, and he/she reports to you. Now the party starts, it’s not going to be easy to manage and date because there are conversations that will take place that will not be appropriate to share or explain. Things will start to shift quickly; it’s best to avoid it right from the beginning.

The End

You insisted, and you kept on dating, and you broke up. That’s ok now you are facing a different problem, resentment, jealousy and a possible case of sexual harassment. It can ruin your career. Do not start the workplace romance; it’s not worth your job or your sanity.

The Ex

The decision came to an end. Now you work with your Ex. It will change the dynamics of your work environment. Think it through, be honest with yourself and weigh the pros and cons, it might be time to look for another job.

In summary, saying yes to a harmless date with someone at work can be disruptive, damaging and cause unwanted problems. Be wise and walk away from the workplace romance. For a Career Coaching Chat, contact me today.

Until next week,
Coach Barb
Certified Career Coach





Would you consider dating someone at work?